Empowering Woman

 When there is no ceiling, the sky's the limit. So let's keep going - let's keep going until every one of the women and girls across the world has the opportunity they deserves to have..... Without limits..... 

 You don't have to be pretty. You don't owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend /spouse/partner, not to your co-workers,especially not to random men on the street. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked "female "..... 

 Feminism isn't about making women stronger. Women are already strong😊, it's about changing the way the world perceive that strength.... 

 There is nothing stronger than a broken women💔 Who has rebuild herself💪

 To all the little girls reading this, never doubt that you are valuable and powerful🙌, and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world to pursue and achieve your own dreams☺️

 Educate a women and you educate a family. The empowered women is powerful beyond measure and beautiful beyond description. If women understood and exercised their power they could remake the world.  A women is like a tea bag-you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water. 

 Women will be hidden no more😌. We will not remain hidden figures. We have names.... We are leaders everywhere you look-from the CEO who runs a fortune 500 company to the housewife who raises her children and heads her household. We will continue to breakdown walls and defy stereotypes. 👊

Black women have had to develop a larger vision of our society than perhaps any other group. They have had to understand white men, white women, and black men. And they have had to understand themselves. When black women bring victories, it is a boost for virtually every segment of society. 

In life we go through things that makes us sometimes  wonder: How am I gonna get through this...  how am I gonna overcome this heavy load on my own....  not realising that we have a God that will never ever fall us. Forgetting that the God we worship can do the impossible.  One thing God will never do is forsake you no matter what. Everyone in your life may have turned their backs to you.... but God is there to give you that helping hand..... TO whispering to you that you can make it, that your almost THERE and to just take one more step and not give up.  God will never give you a battle that you aren't  able to fight.  You may be going through what your going through for a reason. Just trust the process and keep on praying 

We live in a world where black women aren't easily accepted.  Where we need to keep hiding the fact that we are black........ By wearing weaves..... Bleaching our skin to become lighter or using other skin products that gives the world the illusion that we aren't black...  And in the process loosing our own identified.  Black is beauty  Black is power Black is unique  And black is as important as the any colour in the world.  And I'm proud to be a black African Queen. 

4 in 5 woman have been assaulted or abuse. That's a scary thought to have. To think that you maybe next. But we don't really realize that we can do something about it. There are so many organizations out there that are welling to help women,to teach us how to defend ourselves. We don't really need to be rescued all the time. We can be our own soldier our own heroines.  We should show the world that we can fight our own battles that we aren't defenseless and weak that we are strong and can overcome whatever comes our way.

Question: What do you do when someone you care about and "love" a lot keep pushing you away when its convenient to them and sometimes they act like they care about you and than are cold towards you?... Answer: You wish them well and pray for them and then love them from afar. You can't allow yourself to be in a toxic relationship. It will damage you more then leaving. 

 Realised that a lot of woman feel like they need to be loved to be worth it. I didn't understand what made most of us feel this way but now I kinda get it. God made most women to show uncondition love to the people in their lives and all we really want is for that love to be return and when it isn't it messes with our head. We start wondering if we're good enough if it's because of something we did or something we didn't do. All I can say is not everyone wants your love. Not everyone deserve it either. So all we can do is spread our love and those that need it will appreciate it and those that don't, well that's their loss.